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		<title>By: Anette Iren Johansen</title>
		<link>http://anetteiren.com/dealing-with-a-sociopath/#comment-6270</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Anette Iren Johansen]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Jul 2016 01:25:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sure. I feel you. Hope you&#039;re recovering from that relationship.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sure. I feel you. Hope you&#8217;re recovering from that relationship.</p>
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		<title>By: Anette Iren Johansen</title>
		<link>http://anetteiren.com/dealing-with-a-sociopath/#comment-6269</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Anette Iren Johansen]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Jul 2016 01:22:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#039;m sorry you have to suffer. Wish you the best!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m sorry you have to suffer. Wish you the best!</p>
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		<title>By: Anette Iren Johansen</title>
		<link>http://anetteiren.com/dealing-with-a-sociopath/#comment-6267</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Anette Iren Johansen]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Jul 2016 01:18:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#039;m happy I could inspire you. I appreciated your feedback!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m happy I could inspire you. I appreciated your feedback!</p>
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		<title>By: Evan Swanepoel</title>
		<link>http://anetteiren.com/dealing-with-a-sociopath/#comment-5912</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Evan Swanepoel]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Mar 2016 18:35:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#039;s not just men, women can and are capable of being sociopaths too and my own life has been so ripped apart by one ......]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s not just men, women can and are capable of being sociopaths too and my own life has been so ripped apart by one &#8230;&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Wendy</title>
		<link>http://anetteiren.com/dealing-with-a-sociopath/#comment-5872</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Wendy]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Mar 2016 18:09:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[My x boyfriend I am convinced was a sociopath. I am now jobless. I lost all my friends and am facing two felonies . I too use to love life . I am searching for a reason why this happened to me. I can&#039;t find one except I was too trusting and needed to love myself more. I am currently rebuilding my life and am slowly coming out of the deep depression I am in as a result of getting involved with my x. He never cared about me and in fact fed off my hope to help him. He has no remorse and only wants to wreck my life further if I let him. I hope you can rebuild your life also. I feel your pain .]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My x boyfriend I am convinced was a sociopath. I am now jobless. I lost all my friends and am facing two felonies . I too use to love life . I am searching for a reason why this happened to me. I can&#8217;t find one except I was too trusting and needed to love myself more. I am currently rebuilding my life and am slowly coming out of the deep depression I am in as a result of getting involved with my x. He never cared about me and in fact fed off my hope to help him. He has no remorse and only wants to wreck my life further if I let him. I hope you can rebuild your life also. I feel your pain .</p>
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		<title>By: jakobdee</title>
		<link>http://anetteiren.com/dealing-with-a-sociopath/#comment-5712</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Dec 2015 01:20:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[i experienced abuse early ... as a result i noticed a pattern of being very proficient at attracting abusive people ... battling with the guilt of having things turned on me,because all i wanted was resolution ... i also find these people are very interested in blogs like yours,psychology,sociology,murder mysteries,etc because they learn strategies to counteract the defences,they also &#039;win&#039; the propaganda cover stories to get others on their side.
I refuse to label myself a victim though.
But the only solution,ive found is blocking everything,including opportunity ... and damn,its lonely ... im fine with my own company,but when its the majority of your life ... theres a sense of not growing ...  i feel so immature in so many ways.Acquaintances will even accuse me of &#039;being weird&#039; because i havent &#039;ticked the appropriate boxes of the life checklist&#039;.
Anyway .. by chance i came across your and Geir&#039;s blog and so happy for the both of you ... a reminder  that others still have a chance to be a positive synergy ... and plus you have got me the closest to giving up smoking,maybe i can fight without the smoke sheild ... i salute you both - take care and with much fun :)]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i experienced abuse early &#8230; as a result i noticed a pattern of being very proficient at attracting abusive people &#8230; battling with the guilt of having things turned on me,because all i wanted was resolution &#8230; i also find these people are very interested in blogs like yours,psychology,sociology,murder mysteries,etc because they learn strategies to counteract the defences,they also &#8216;win&#8217; the propaganda cover stories to get others on their side.<br />
I refuse to label myself a victim though.<br />
But the only solution,ive found is blocking everything,including opportunity &#8230; and damn,its lonely &#8230; im fine with my own company,but when its the majority of your life &#8230; theres a sense of not growing &#8230;  i feel so immature in so many ways.Acquaintances will even accuse me of &#8216;being weird&#8217; because i havent &#8216;ticked the appropriate boxes of the life checklist&#8217;.<br />
Anyway .. by chance i came across your and Geir&#8217;s blog and so happy for the both of you &#8230; a reminder  that others still have a chance to be a positive synergy &#8230; and plus you have got me the closest to giving up smoking,maybe i can fight without the smoke sheild &#8230; i salute you both &#8211; take care and with much fun <img src="http://anetteiren.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif" alt=":)" class="wp-smiley" /> </p>
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		<title>By: Anette Iren Johansen</title>
		<link>http://anetteiren.com/dealing-with-a-sociopath/#comment-3401</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Anette Iren Johansen]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Jan 2015 17:45:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The suggested Gray Rock Method is used whenever you encounter manipulation – good, kind, bad or evil. There are no black or white. Even a sociopath can be &quot;nice&quot;. Kind people can manipulate too.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The suggested Gray Rock Method is used whenever you encounter manipulation – good, kind, bad or evil. There are no black or white. Even a sociopath can be &#8220;nice&#8221;. Kind people can manipulate too.</p>
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		<title>By: Mona</title>
		<link>http://anetteiren.com/dealing-with-a-sociopath/#comment-3397</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Mona]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Jan 2015 23:10:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Up there it says how to deal with all sorts of emotional vampires. And listed in between some real evil, borderline stands. 

Now that&#039;s just unfair, sure I am afraid of abandonment, but I never stalk or punish people. If I am ever manipulative, I feel so guilty I throw up. Now. Guilt. Guilt is not for the real energy vampires. So just please take that borderline away from the post, no matter how old. 

The borderline alone is not the reason for that kind of evil. Some have other flaws in addition. 

Don&#039;t mess it up for those of us who needs to be accepted, more than anyone else. I became this way because of the worlds brutality. Why does this stigma need to go on?

I take it very personal to be equaled with a psycopath. But now that&#039;s just so &quot;borderline&quot; of me.


I do relate to your story though. And feel very sorry for your losses. It&#039;s good to read how you managed to get out.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Up there it says how to deal with all sorts of emotional vampires. And listed in between some real evil, borderline stands. </p>
<p>Now that&#8217;s just unfair, sure I am afraid of abandonment, but I never stalk or punish people. If I am ever manipulative, I feel so guilty I throw up. Now. Guilt. Guilt is not for the real energy vampires. So just please take that borderline away from the post, no matter how old. </p>
<p>The borderline alone is not the reason for that kind of evil. Some have other flaws in addition. </p>
<p>Don&#8217;t mess it up for those of us who needs to be accepted, more than anyone else. I became this way because of the worlds brutality. Why does this stigma need to go on?</p>
<p>I take it very personal to be equaled with a psycopath. But now that&#8217;s just so &#8220;borderline&#8221; of me.</p>
<p>I do relate to your story though. And feel very sorry for your losses. It&#8217;s good to read how you managed to get out.</p>
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		<title>By: Anette Iren Johansen</title>
		<link>http://anetteiren.com/dealing-with-a-sociopath/#comment-3265</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Anette Iren Johansen]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jan 2015 02:41:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Oh dear! I&#039;m sorry to hear that. I hope you will sort that out soon. ]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh dear! I&#8217;m sorry to hear that. I hope you will sort that out soon. </p>
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		<title>By: anathea white</title>
		<link>http://anetteiren.com/dealing-with-a-sociopath/#comment-3263</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[anathea white]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jan 2015 02:01:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Very true and informative.  Finally bored mine right out of my life....except for our children who he has custody of. But that&#039;s a whole other issue]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very true and informative.  Finally bored mine right out of my life&#8230;.except for our children who he has custody of. But that&#8217;s a whole other issue</p>
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